Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor I’m taking a break from my series on rejection to comment on another matter. For those of you who might not know, there is an interesting discussion going on in the Psychology Today blogosphere. The discussion was initiated by an article from Dr. Rattenberg entitled “What Women Really Want”. In that article, she discussed how men can improve their love lives by focusing on what she proposes women really want (a man who is confident and high in self-esteem, as opposed to one who is simply materially wealthy). That article was later discussed by Dr. White in a response called “Who Cares What Women (or Men) Want – What Do You Want?”. If it isn’t clear from the title, Dr. White’s message is that figuring out what you want in a relationship (and being authentic to who you are) is more important than guessing about what others want you to be (and trying to fit those expectations). Both authors make compelling cases for their perspective. In fact, they echo the same debate that often goes on in general self-help or dating advice. When looking for love, should you focus on “being what others want”… Read full this story
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